Connor's Story

Connor’s* early years were marked by instability and rejection. Until the age of eight, he lived with his mum, with no contact with his dad. However, shortly after his eighth birthday, his mum decided she no longer wanted him in the family home and sent him to live with his dad. This arrangement was short-lived, as his dad, eager to start a new life with his girlfriend, also decided Connor could not stay. He was sent to live with a family friend, but after six months, he was moved again—this time to the friend’s mother.

For the past two years, Connor has lived with this woman, whom he now affectionately calls ‘Nan.’ She provides him with the love and stability he had never experienced before, and for the first time, Connor feels truly wanted. Despite this newfound security, Connor has struggled with anger and behavioural challenges. His school pastoral lead referred him to our mentoring programme after other interventions, including counselling and therapy, failed to engage him.

Building trust with Connor took time. Our early sessions focused on casual conversations about his interests and playing card games to help him feel comfortable. After three months, Connor now regularly opens up about his emotions and past experiences. His behaviour in school has improved, and his pastoral lead is thrilled with his progress. We hope Connor will soon be able to join our youth clubs and trips, further strengthening his support network.

*Not his real name